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From the bestselling author of "Stop Surviving Start Living"
FINALLY! THE STRAIGHT-TALKING MARRIAGE BOOK THAT KLAL YISROEL HAS BEEN WAITING FOR
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THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU.
OR YOUR SPOUSE.
OR THE MATCH BETWEEN YOU.
Learn The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make and watch the magic reappear!

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Get 3 fantastic gifts with your purchase!

MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP

$495 Value

A complete online guide to creating a successful marriage, designed for those married over five years. Finding yourself in a mediocre marriage? This complete course can help. Includes full access to the video, audio and workbooks. $495.00 value.

10 R.D.M. Audio Book

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A complete online guide to creating a successful marriage, designed for those married over five years. Finding yourself in a mediocre marriage? This complete course can help. Includes full access to the video, audio and workbooks. $495.00 value.

10 R.D.M. E-BOOK

$9.95 VALUE

A complete online guide to creating a successful marriage, designed for those married over five years. Finding yourself in a mediocre marriage? This complete course can help. Includes full access to the video, audio and workbooks. $495.00 value.

If You Were To Buy Each Of These Products Separately, It Would Cost $549(Actual Cost)

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2 WONDERFUL PEOPLE.
10 DUMB MISTAKES.
1 MISERABLE MARRIAGE.
“My husband has no idea how to meet my basic emotional needs.”

“My wife is always looking to start a fight.”

“I feel like there’s something missing in our marriage.”

What if that something is basic information about what it takes for a marriage to succeed?
Marriages are meant to work. Hashem created a world where this is so. And yet… they so often don’t.
Built on the real-world experience gained by counseling hundreds of couples, Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier peels back the curtain on the blind spots that prevent couples from understanding each other. If you're looking for a tried-and-tested method to get your marriage back on course, this book is for you.
meet the man behind the book
Rabbi Shafier
Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier is the founder of TheShmuz.com, a life-changing mussar shiur that is available on TorahAnytime, The Shmuz Podcast and The Shmuz App.
He is also the author of the highly acclaimed best seller “Stop Surviving Start Living", "Two Worlds One Chance" and "Finding and Keeping Your Soulmate".
Here's what others have to say about this book
What the Leaders of Klal Yisroel Are Saying About This Incredible Book
HaRav Yechiel Yitzchok Perr
HaRosh Yeshiva, Yeshivah of Far Rockaway
“This is an excellent book. Deep happiness awaits those that are wise enough to change.”
HaRav Shlomo Singer
HaRosh Yeshiva, Passaic Torah Institute
"I am a talmid of Rav Aharon Kotler and Rav Moshe Feinstein. I can tell you with certainty that they would have said: Everyone should read this book!"
Rabbi Hanoch Teller
"This masterwork is simply indispensable; it will change lives, save families and compellingly impact our community"
Rabbi Hanoch Teller
Rabbi Shimon Gruen
“An eye-opening, refreshing and helpful read that gives validation and support to couples at every stage of married life.”
Rabbi Shimon Gruen
Rabbi Eli Gewitz
“Packed with genuine Torah wisdom and a healthy dose of humor”
“I have ordered two cases of this book so that I can give them to my kallah students. It’s an absolute must for every engaged couple.”
Mrs. Miriam Gruen
Why Every Jewish Home Needs This Book
This book is the ultimate marriage manual. As you turn the pages, you will be flawed by the straight-talking, grounded advice that guides you on how to achieve long-lasting harmony.

The ideal engagement gift for the soon-to-be-married


The must-have book for the first years of marriage


The ultimate boost for mature couples


Make sure that your marriage doesn't succumb to the same mistakes that Rabbi Shafier has seen so many others make.
Avoid these ten fundamental errors and build the most satisfying relationship imaginable.

The Chapters Every Married Couple Needs to Read
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The Ten Really Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make provides an incredible amount of trusty-worthy, common sense advice. It will give you comprehensive hadracha on how a Torah-based marriage can thrive in an easy-to-digest format.

The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes includes chapters on:

  • ​Effective communication (Scary statistic: Almost half of frum marriage end because of poor communication skills)
  • ​Understanding your spouse’s emotional world. It’s not enough to buy her flowers. 
  • ​How to use the essential skills Hashem has given us to make a stable, loving marriage
  • ​Why gender differences can wreak havoc on a marriage (sorry to swim against the tide here folks, but if you’re in denial about gender differences this book may just change your mind!)
  • ​How to give and receive genuine, feel-good appreciation from your spouse

Don't miss out on your chance to bring a new level of love and closeness to your marriage!

SPECIAL BONUSES

Here's What You're Going To Get With Your Book Purchase Today!

MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP

$495 Value

A complete online guide to creating a successful marriage, designed for those married over five years. $495.00 Value.

10 R.D.m Audio book

$19.95 Value

A professionally recorded narration of the entire 10 Really Dumb Mistakes that Very Smart Couples Make. $19.95 Value

10 R.D.M
E-BOOK

$9.95 Value

E-book version of the entire 10 Really Dumb Mistakes that Very Smart Couples Make. Accessible wherever, on all platforms. $9.95 Value.

If You Were To Buy Each Of These Products Separately, It Would Cost $549(Actual Cost)

Your Price Today? Just $24.95!

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